tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post112074105782301279..comments2023-10-22T05:21:25.725-03:00Comments on It Was a Dark and Stormy Night...: Rant: The Obese NationKelly Boycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120828002949123312005-07-08T10:06:00.000-03:002005-07-08T10:06:00.000-03:00Kelly - I hear you on this! Things have changed so...Kelly - I hear you on this! Things have changed so much from the time my friends and I used to run around the neighbourhood in a pack. To the pool, to the park, hide and seek up and down the street etc. We walked to school (which isn't always possible these days) through grade 5. And my parents didn't allow us much tv at all. Not even Sat morning cartoons unless the weather was really bad and even then only an hour. My sister's three are all really fit - so full of energy they HAVE to run about. And they too have restricted TV/computer access and no video games. The 7yr old and the 4yr old just finished soccer. And either ride their bikes or walk to school except on really cold winter days (they're out on the Prairies).<BR/>I'm not sure why some parents find it easier to park their kids in front of the tv and let them eat so much junk. Though there are some children out there with glandular problems and genetic tendencies towards fat, so it's not always something that can easily be controlled. Still, a lot of this is so preventable.Tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15636189059910920978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120787573579332892005-07-07T22:52:00.000-03:002005-07-07T22:52:00.000-03:00There's always the Mentoring program which isn't a...There's always the Mentoring program which isn't as much of a time commitment.Maxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366112039286984135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120784549842741012005-07-07T22:02:00.000-03:002005-07-07T22:02:00.000-03:00I have to figure out the time commitment part of i...I have to figure out the time commitment part of it and if I can do it. But the life skills is more of a presentation type thing which would be a bit different from what I can tell. We'll see. I need to get Reno and my presentation for the writer's retreat in August out of the way before I commit to anything else first.Kelly Boycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120777423774325232005-07-07T20:03:00.000-03:002005-07-07T20:03:00.000-03:00Kelly, I love the idea of you being a big sister! ...Kelly, <BR/><BR/>I love the idea of you being a big sister! You'd do a fab job!! What a great idea.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120760320191390742005-07-07T15:18:00.000-03:002005-07-07T15:18:00.000-03:00I'm hoping that fast food restaurants start offeri...I'm hoping that fast food restaurants start offering more healthy choices. But school cafeterias are terrible. I know--I work at a school. They offer so much junk food, it's no wonder the kids will choose a slushee over an apple. :/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120756377002625052005-07-07T14:12:00.000-03:002005-07-07T14:12:00.000-03:00It drives me crazy that healthy food is more expen...It drives me crazy that healthy food is more expensive. I know what you're talking about. I've made an effort in the past couple of years to eat healthier but I still have a restricted budget. Trying to make that stretch and eat healthy is not an easy feat, and I'm just one person. I can't imagine trying to feed a large family like that with only so much cash.Kelly Boycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120754117913438602005-07-07T13:35:00.000-03:002005-07-07T13:35:00.000-03:00Wow Kelly what a topic!!! Not something that can ...Wow Kelly what a topic!!! Not something that can be resolved in a day huh?!! The comments you received have been great. Being a mother of two, I can relate to a lot of what has been said. I find in our neighbourhood (which is semi-haven and lots and lots of kids) it is hard to find a kid outside. My kids are always outside either biking, playing with a wagon or playing soccer. They are pretty much used to the fact that I prefer them outside. <BR/><BR/>When they are at the sitter's I know they are in front of a TV and I know the treats they are being given aren't what I would be giving them so when I have them, I make sure that it is somewhat healthy. Treats nowadays are not really treats, they are a common part of their diets!!<BR/><BR/>Society and expenses (i.e. potential hike in power rates, milk, three bags for what $7.00?)play a large role as well. Now it is cheaper to buy junk food than fresh fruit and vegies (that never seem to last fresh any more).<BR/><BR/>Oh I could go on and on...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120751297215799832005-07-07T12:48:00.000-03:002005-07-07T12:48:00.000-03:00And in keeping with the "don't just shoot your mou...And in keeping with the "don't just shoot your mouth off, do something about it" mentality I was raised with, I decided to log onto the Big Bros/Big Sis website and look at their programs. They have one on there called Life Skills Mentoring which might just be right up my alley. I believe I'll see if I can get some information on that. Might as well put those public speaking skills to work before they grow rusty on me.<BR/><BR/>Also - I'm not a parent, so for me to stand there and tell someone they're a bad parent I think is a bit out of my ballpark. So I won't do it. Do I think parents who aren't as involved in their kids lives as they should be, change that fact, absolutely. Do I think parents who have disengaged from their kids' lives get plugged back in - you bet. I had a friend of mine tell me they usually let their kids have their own way because it's too hard to argue with them. That struck me, because I wasn't aware parenting was suppose to be an 'easy' job. Parenting is hard, no question. Doing it well, even harder. But in my opinion, when you take on the mantle, you take on the responsibility of playing hardball when you have to. Is it easy? Nope, don't expect so. Sometimes I imagine you come out at the end of the day feeling like you've gone a few rounds with a wilda beast and lost. But the kids are probably better for it in the end because at least they know you're in there and you're trying.Kelly Boycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120750448243600802005-07-07T12:34:00.000-03:002005-07-07T12:34:00.000-03:00The problem you're talking about doesn't just boil...The problem you're talking about doesn't just boil down to 'bad parenting'. It has so many factors, and can usually be summed up with the word, excess. There’s excess tv/video/computer games, shows, choices. There are excess snacks, advertising, and options. There are excess hormones in the foods that were once deemed healthy. There’s excess costs that 'force' the adult population to work in excess to pay the excess bills. There is excess crime that keeps good parents from sending their kids outside all day everyday. It's a different world than it once was and the problem is that we as a nation are learning how to live healthy in this society. <BR/><BR/>I feel things are a changing already. Loads of families are making the switch to move away from electronic activities to physical ones but for lots of people it’s not that easy and it’s unfair to judge society as a whole when it comes to this issue, just as it is unfair to judge whole groups of people for any reason. <BR/><BR/>That said, as a parent I normally limit my kids to 2 half hour sessions of electronics a day, their choice: computer, xbox, or tv…all which are in a central part of the home and not in their bedrooms. They spend loads of time outside due to the fact we live in a rural area with little to no crime. As a family we bike, golf, swim and hikes and ‘try’ to stay away from fast foods and keep most snacks healthy. Did I do this a few years ago? No. Why not? Because I’m learning how to say no to the lifestyle that advertising companies are throwing down our throats, and how to live a simpler life in a society of excess.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120748185122558262005-07-07T11:56:00.000-03:002005-07-07T11:56:00.000-03:00And now from the other side of the fence... I'm th...And now from the other side of the fence... I'm the parent of an overweight child. There is a thing called 'genetics' people. Let's not forget that. And I'm sorry... but at the risk of offending people I care about... anyone who dares call me a 'bad parent' because my kid is overweight can take a flying fucking leap. I'm a single parent working full time and my life is devoted to raising my child to be the best human being she can be and if you're going to look at us in Sobey's or the park or the mall and automatically label me a 'bad parent' because she's overweight? There's more than just food that can contribute to a weight problem. Sure there are lots of kids out there who's parents don't do enough with them, I'm not disputing that. But not everything you see is that cut and dry. Open your minds people. Just cause you see a fat kid doesn't mean her parents don't care about her.Maxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366112039286984135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120747503630159972005-07-07T11:45:00.000-03:002005-07-07T11:45:00.000-03:00Just because you don't have kids doesn't mean you'...Just because you don't have kids doesn't mean you're not allowed to comment on what you see going on around you. I don't own a gun but that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to speak out against someone pointing one at me. <BR/><BR/>You're absolutely right on all counts. This is a major problem. I envision a somewhat Matrix like future where we're all just hooked up to our electronic teats after we're born because our muscle mass has fallen by the wayside, failed to evolve from lack of use. In a couple thousand years we're going to be blobs of gelatinous mush who can think and feel and speak, but that's about it. So we'll be hooked up to our own personal computer sytem that will do everything for us with just a mere thought. And we'll be fed intravenously... which will probably cure the weight problem now that I think about it. Oh the delicious irony of it all.Maxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366112039286984135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120747430058739382005-07-07T11:43:00.000-03:002005-07-07T11:43:00.000-03:00Kelly, I've had the same rant for years, and I do...Kelly, <BR/><BR/>I've had the same rant for years, and I do have kids. I limit the amount of time my kids sit in front of the TV, and I don't have video games in my house. I do let my daughter on the computer for an hour a day, but its learning and not really play.<BR/><BR/>I was like you, forever outside and rarely in front of the TV. My folks didn't limit the amount of time I had in front of it, but I was so involved in dance that I rarely had the time.<BR/><BR/>Its a sad time what we're coming to. <BR/><BR/>And I agree with piss & moan. It is the parents.Donna Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094308064754797555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12700936.post-1120747102558544112005-07-07T11:38:00.000-03:002005-07-07T11:38:00.000-03:00I knew I could count on you to say the things I wa...I knew I could count on you to say the things I was biting my tongue on. :->Kelly Boycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.com